I did not wake up this morning thinking I would post a #wcw. I was at work and I received an email reminder that I needed to submit a picture for our database. So I'm going through the pictures in my phone, ipad, and then I resorted to instagram and I found this picture collage: 

I like them all! However, the one thing that came to mind when I saw these photos was the fact that they exude confidence that I didn't have at the time that they were taken. This person in these photos are so far removed from who I am now. I have fought a long battle to get my confidence up and there is no turning back. I am my wcw because I have finally gotten to a place where I am okay being my own wcw as opposed to being somebody else's. I love every part of me and that's a level of self appreciation and self love that the young lady in these pictures never thought she'd reach.
​Have a happy Wednesday!

So people are always so quick to say "actions speak louder than words". I think that's only true some of the time. I think that's how people get confused or end up in confusing situations. I'm speaking more in the sense of relationships or in the more popular situationships. 
If a guy tells you he doesn't want to be in a relationship, nothing he does after that means that he's changed his mind. Until he TELLS you he's changed his mind, assume that nothing's changed. That's where we go wrong. "Oh he did [insert boyfriend-like action here] so that means he wants to be my boyfriend" Nope. That means you fall while he doesn't and you end up being the one hurt in the end. And when you confront him about all of his boyfriend-like actions, he's going to refer to his initial statement that went something like this "I'm just not in the place to be in a relationship right now".
It's tough because it's so easy to fall for a person that's fulfilling most of your relationship needs. He's talking to you all day, he asks about your day, he's protective of you, he gives you advice, he fucks you real good, he goes out with you, and he may even introduce you to friends and family. All these actions mean nothing without the words. 
Don't get caught up. Don't be blindsided. Don't set yourself up. 

A book I loved and a book I hated.


I absolutely adore children's books. My current favorite is "The Gingerbread Man Loose in the School" It's a really cute twist on the original Gingergread Man Story we all know and love. 

A book I hated would be Ender's Game. Hated reading that shit in high school. Not my type of book. 

Sorry about the delay in posts, I had visitor's and honestly I was rebelling against the computer over Thanksgiving break because it reminded me of work.