Choosing Ashley: Visions and Things Vol. 9

The FINAL piece of my vision board is all about choosing me and living my best life. 

CHOOSE ASHLEY: I always liked to think that choosing me was something I grew into doing. That's not true. I wouldn't be in some of these situations if I was truly choosing me. Recently, I made a decision that was TOUGH to make. I had to choose myself and I didn't expect it to be so hard. I'm learning that sometimes I'm going to have to fight myself to make the best decisions for me. 

I've faulted people and looked down on people that have ditched me for one reason or another and it all boils down to one thing: they chose them. Ultimately, it didn't matter how I felt about their decision to exit my life. At the end of the day, they mattered most to them. 

In order to be my best self, I have to choose me and be for real about it.  That's what this part of my vision board will remind me to do.