Dating Ashley

As I've shared on many different platforms, I have never been in a relationship. I've been a side chick, I've been in a situationship, I've had crushes, I've had suitors, but I've never had a boyfriend.
That often leads me to wonder why...but I'm not ready to explore that yet LOL. I have my ideas as to what I think makes me good girlfriend material and ideas as to what would bother someone about dating me. I could list those things out, but I decided to branch out and ask the guys who know me what they think. Some of these answers really threw me for a loop. And some of the things that didn't make the list surprised me. 

The question I asked them was : what do you think are the pros and cons of dating me?

Pros from guy 1: great sense of humor, huge heart, loyal, honest, positive, great drinking partner, spontaneous, secret, secret, and can cook
Cons from guy 1: bossy, don't like football, and if an argument breaks out he thinks I'll call the cops

Pros from guy 2: funny by accident, like to cook, we would compliment each other in areas that we lack in 
Cons from guy 2: needy, no booty, stubborn/hard headed (this guy was uncooperative in this area and basically told me to tell him what I think and he'd pick from the list...asshole! LOL)

Pros from guy 3: very understanding, good at letting people be themselves, I can talk shit and you won't be offended or irritated, you cook, clean, you're smart, corny as hell
Cons from guy 3: You are a bit pessimistic and you get on my nerves
Additional commentary from guy 3: I love you for you. Flaws and all.

My Comments:
When I decided to branch out and ask guys I know about this, I didn't expect to hear such nice things. I mean I mostly talk shit with my guy friends. I was very pleasantly surprised at how I'm perceived.. I think it's so funny that they all talked about my cooking. None of them said I was cute...so am I cute and that's not important or am I ugly? Some days, I really don't know! 
According to these guys, I should have a boyfriend. Let me add that at some point, all these guys had their chance with me and passed...so ummmmmm they're all lying about those cons 😐

JK but for real...I'm everybody's baby, boo, and dear, but I'm not anybody's girlfriend LOL let me go find one. BYE YALL!